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What kind of men do Chinese girls like?

Chinese girls dreaming

Let’s suppose that you befriended a Chinese girl. Leaving a good first impression is not enough. If you want to build a long-term relationship, you should know what personal characteristics are most important in her eyes.

As a kind of disclaimer I’d like to state that I am talking about common Chinese girls living in mainland China

I cannot guarantee for all Chinese girls, but most of us are simple and frank and don’t hide anything behind a smile. As I mentioned in one of previous articles – Don’t make these mistakes with Chinese girls – Chinese girls hate being cheated. Thus a basic merit – is to be honest and sincere.

Be a man of your word. If you made a promise – keep it. No matter how insignificant the promise is in your eyes, don’t break or ignore it. If you constantly break little promises – you will leave an impression of unreliable person. Keep doing so and one day you will find it’s too late to regret.

Be ambitious! Many people note that Chinese girls are very practical. Please – don’t confuse it with greediness. We don’t need you to be rich. But you must have ambitions.

In one forum I read comment of a girl who stated that she likes successful men not because of what they HAVE, but because of their mindset – that same mindset that made them successful.

Caution! Ambitious is not the same as arrogant.

Be filial. Chinese tradition values the filial piety above many other virtues. Thus – pay attention to the way in which you talk about your parents, and respect the girl’s family as well.

Maybe you paid attention that I didn’t advise you to be romantic and sweet. Though the famous saying states that women love with ears – I would urge to let the actions talk about your care and love instead of words.

I hope that you find this reading helpful. Wish you good luck and happiness.

Sincerely yours, Crystal Tao

  • http://thedowntowndiner.blogspot.com melanie gao

    Love your perspective Crystal. Thanks for sharing these thoughts!

  • Kari

    I would say that Chinese girls are most ambitious looking girls what i have seen. And usually it means more that a mindset.
    I support equality but i can see mostly fishers.
    Honesly would like to hear more other views :)

    • http://www.lovelovechina.com Crystal

      Well… I don’t know if Chinese girls are MOST ambitious, but we are definitely far from a stereotype of subservient Asian girls.
      However, let’s indeed wait for “other” views :cool:

  • Mike_In_Zhengzhou

    China is famous for being the #1 country for one night stands. I would think a strong sense of monogamy would be the 1st trait a Chinese girl would want in a man.

    • http://www.lovelovechina.com Crystal

      Absolutely agree!!!

  • john

    I’m not sure that most Chinese girls would recognise honesty and sincerity.

  • Cap’n Rad

    Some are very VERY ambitious. Meet some Shanghai girls sometime. But so are most women!

  • paulk

    i agree my chinese wife nothing more important than loyalty she has had her heart broken by one cheating man in her life !!!

    the next thing is a family of her own to look after that is her dream !!!!

    i am not even close to being rich !!! she respects me because i am smart and i was constantly going around her home and mama and papas home fixing things like dripping taps and plugged sinks !!!

    her and her family were so happy most of it i could do with my little multi tool set i always carry in my pocket !!!! for me it was nothing !!!

    my wife made me feel very valuable like i just gave her a cadillac !!!! hehehe

    i found out it does not take much to impress chinese people and earn their respect !!!

    especially my wifes respect !!!!

    • Zzz

       Why so many exclamation marks? 

  • Alain1976

    It’s all rather complicated isn’t it?

    Can see why many chinese men make do with sex dolls now!lol…

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002861978533 Eric Perez

    I can’t believe I’m even reading this

  • sultan

    I like chinese bussy

  • Jolly

    Crystal – Whatever you are telling here is just what you like as a chinese girl, not what all other people should do. I know how chinese girls are. They are the most greediest species i have encounter in my life. I am a foreigner. I have many chinese girl friends. All of them say only talk about onething with me…how is your country. i want to go there. we can get married soon. Stupid isnt it. So stop giving this useless personal opinion. If you thing you are right than you are probably retarted

  • Fuking rediculous

    As Jolly couldnt have said it better himself, and think twice before you think you can outsmart a chinese girl hahah, Jolly got a email id love to chat up with fellow expats anytme ;)

  • nocturno

    A single word: MONEY.
    Everything else is just ‘extra’.
    Don’t waste your time thinking on ‘human values’ (which Neoliberalism has destroyed in China, as in much of the world already).

  • John

    Yep. The chinese women, young or old is all about money. Their God.