ziccawei said:

 

One question:  If the desire to pair bond is so strong and the strong will for commitment, how do you explain the rise of the aged 30+ single girl in large cities of China?  Ok, they all wanted a rich husband (too late now) but if the desire to pair bond is so strong how come they stayed single for so long?

 

Nowadays women are often better educated than their male peers which is a side effect of being more diligent but risk averse than men (genetic).  The men are off setting up companies and industries, the woman are off getting masters degrees.  Women also make superior office slaves than men for the same reason.   They are highly valued by corporations so they have lots of well-paid office jobs.  If a woman is better educated than a man and earns the same or more money, she won't find him high status or attractive.  She will look for a man that is even more educated and wealthy.   She generally won't go for a younger man with these qualifications either.  Plus he has to be taller………..and on it goes until she prices herself out of the market. 

The older a woman gets the longer her shopping list.  This is called "choice addiction".  Women are genetically programmed to be more choosey when it comes to finding a mate because they can have less offspring over their lives.  Even though they have a suitable guy, they hold out for an even better one.  In some women this runs out of control. When do you know you have the  best man you can get? In a modern urban setting there are thousands of mates to choose from.  Better wait a little longer just in case……..whoops!……. menopause – didn't see that coming.

Women are just as sexual as men and driven to have babies but that sexuality has to be switched on by a superior, dominant male.  Otherwise it stays dormant, especially in low testosterone Chinese women.  Not only that but women also evolved to be extremely hostile to men they deem as unworthy –  all men with lower or equal equivalent mating value to them.  They don't just think average guys are unsuitable, they are psychologically repulsed by them, just like we are repulsed by aging, ball-breaking career women.

Women should know this but they are victims of psychological projection.   Women find men with advanced degrees and high paid jobs very attractive so they think men will find the same things attractive in them.  I'm 35, my looks have gone and I'm almost barren but I have an MBA, my own home and car and a great job. I'm such a catch! why can't men see that?  Sorry ladies, if you can get an advanced degree in having a tight -beep-, I'm in.  Otherwise, your academic and career achievements are neutral, at best.

This is hilarious… although I am not supposed to laugh at it

I wont be caught dead holding a purse in public unless to tie her shoe, and texting coordinates every hour is definately not gonna happen….thats way to much control for any kind of relationship….in any part of the world….