December 4, 2010
Jay K. said:
the horror, the horror! im just typing sporadic things…i'm in dalian and see sooo many hot girls in this coffee bar im in now, and finally i can breathe and check out all the fine ladies around me since she went out to check out something in the food court. this city has some seriously tall girls with a mean walk!….
I'm situated in Dalian, too, but I'm kind of curious whether you've ever lived anywhere else in China, as I personally find the dongbei nuren rather plain and unappealing. Or, maybe I just frequent the wrong coffee shop! For my money, the best looking women in China typically hail from Hubei, Hunan and Sichuan (slight nod to the hostess). But sounds like you might favor taller girls, so you're definitely in the right place compared to central/southern girls. Guess I'm just partial to my petite Hubei beauty.
Oh, well…one man's trash is another man's treasure…
December 4, 2010
But it is lack of such games that makes the relationship intimate and true. In true relationships people don't care about win/loss and even less about what other people will think. So – in my opinion – there is nothing inherently right or wrong in asking to carry the purse. As well, there is nothing wrong about agreeing (or refusing) to such request.
That's perhaps the most salient point…the lack of games…made so far on this thread, Crystal. My girlfriend has never asked me to hold/carry her purse since she considers this a sort of mei mianzi scenario for the man. On the other hand, we have a great deal of fun together fashion shopping (for her) and I have never felt less than the man I am to freely offer to hold her purse while she's trying on some outfit. To date, I haven't found that my spherical appendices are an impediment for this type of activity.
February 7, 2011
One question: If the desire to pair bond is so strong and the strong will for commitment, how do you explain the rise of the aged 30+ single girl in large cities of China? Ok, they all wanted a rich husband (too late now) but if the desire to pair bond is so strong how come they stayed single for so long?
Hypergamy (women only marry up) and choice addiction.
Nowadays women are often better educated than their male peers which is a side effect of being more diligent but risk averse than men (genetic). The men are off setting up companies and industries, the woman are off getting masters degrees. Women also make superior office slaves than men for the same reason. They are highly valued by corporations so they have lots of well-paid office jobs. If a woman is better educated than a man and earns the same or more money, she won't find him high status or attractive. She will look for a man that is even more educated and wealthy. She generally won't go for a younger man with these qualifications either. Plus he has to be taller………..and on it goes until she prices herself out of the market.
The older a woman gets the longer her shopping list. This is called "choice addiction". Women are genetically programmed to be more choosey when it comes to finding a mate because they can have less offspring over their lives. Even though they have a suitable guy, they hold out for an even better one. In some women this runs out of control. When do you know you have the best man you can get? In a modern urban setting there are thousands of mates to choose from. Better wait a little longer just in case……..whoops!……. menopause – didn't see that coming.
Women are just as sexual as men and driven to have babies but that sexuality has to be switched on by a superior, dominant male. Otherwise it stays dormant, especially in low testosterone Chinese women. Not only that but women also evolved to be extremely hostile to men they deem as unworthy – all men with lower or equal equivalent mating value to them. They don't just think average guys are unsuitable, they are psychologically repulsed by them, just like we are repulsed by aging, ball-breaking career women.
Women should know this but they are victims of psychological projection. Women find men with advanced degrees and high paid jobs very attractive so they think men will find the same things attractive in them. I'm 35, my looks have gone and I'm almost barren but I have an MBA, my own home and car and a great job. I'm such a catch! why can't men see that? Sorry ladies, if you can get an advanced degree in having a tight -beep-, I'm in. Otherwise, your academic and career achievements are neutral, at best.
January 30, 2010
This is hilarious… although I am not supposed to laugh at it
November 20, 2010
I just turn the tables and insist on marrying up myself.
Yes I have a Masters myself, but I am angling to marry a lady with a PhD, why shoud I settle for less?
I wont be caught dead holding a purse in public unless to tie her shoe, and texting coordinates every hour is definately not gonna happen….thats way to much control for any kind of relationship….in any part of the world….
(big sigh) Wow so many thoughts on this, my ….whoa almost said Chinese girlfriend! no she calls me her teacher :P well, she asked me to carry her purse, I felt my balls try to exit my body, then I said this is China, maybe all men are expected to do this, this scenario repeated itself a few times, but because I was man enough to try… eventually it was reserved for more obviously useful times, like when she was very tired and it was heavy in the dark at night, no problem. Right now she is with another man on vacation, I'm supposed to trust her, because she's a loyal student, she did buy me some smelly perfumy thing for the bathroom/ in lui of the fabric softener, and a large set of bamboo plants, in general this feels like a -beep- nightmare… qi guai, but I was reading up on a ninja proxy server the other day, and the ninja quote on the page said, what do we do when problems arise? we give them a roundhouse kick to the face, ball check. Yes, I got em, what will, I do? stay in good shape, save money, max out sit back and let the honey come pouring in. hire a secretary to schedule my dates if necessary.
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