October 19, 2011
After the bad lack i had with 2 chinese girls on the previous year,seems that I'm not going more through a bad patch.
One chinese girl on the net,who i consider a special friend,is going to come to Spain to make one month summer course,but she takes advantage of the travel to visit lot of places as she can.She has lot of friends who are studying nowadays in my country,and she will come with some class mates too.At first she was going to make a tour with them and with some spanish guides,who are native friends of her friends.
Well,I thought I was going to have a busy summer with summer practises but in the end im free so since 1 month ago I told her my desire to meet with her and do that tour both alone,and she accepted after some days with several doubts.We have never faced before,except though QQ or Skype,but I know her since lot of months ago and we always have got a special friendship.
Maybe you can consider she can take advantage of me but I havent traveled much inside my country,I had been in few cities and most of them very small…more than a tour guide im going to be a travel partner.The only thing she can take advantage is about to practise spanish or I can guide better in my country coz im a native lol…but i dont think thats the case,after the bad experience I got with one chinese girl who i didnt know her much before…And of course she knows all of these disadvantages and still want to travel with me alone for several days.
What im really surprise is that even without meeting with me before,she even prefer in the accomodation to share a common room with 2 beds to safe money.I must say that she is 20,without boyfriend-or at least she told that- and maybe even hasnt had the first kiss experience yet.Im 24 and im a little afraid she maybe cant guess well the situation… But she constantly repeat me we are good friends,so,mm,its a little confused of her real intentions.
One way she has to say goodbye is "9 hugs".If i understand well,9 in chinese is similar of eternity,which is commonly used for good friends,couples and in the weddings.But…altough she says it with affection and after this situation,do you think there can be anything else?
I must add that after this summer trip she will return to China and I dont know if she would come here again,so if I dont go there,maybe we cant meet more…talking it as a friendship.
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