Try looking for her on other sites, Such as (CLM) China Love Match, Chinese Love links or Cherry Blossoms. There you will be able for a minimal charge to get direct access. You can find if she is there for free if you do a narrow search, location, age etc. Only pay a small fee to join if you find her, in order to make contact. The sites that charge a fee for translation of letters are mostly a scam. Many of the girls are real but the agencies use the same girl to bait many guys. I know of a girl that was married to a friend, the agency was still using her as bait, 6 months later. The agencies make big money if you get married. She signed a contract with them if she is there. They do not like girls that can speak any English. Once you meet them it is too easy to cut the agency out of the loop, if the girl can speak some English. Good luck. China Shark Mike (member here) also knows how these guys at ChnLove work.

You are paying for the translating, she likely paid a few hundred dollars (USD) at most to join. ChnLove. In most cases the translator is the only one who reads and writes the letters until you go to China and actually meet her. I wish you luck, you will need it unless you find her elsewhere. You want to get on skype or another video service asap to verify she is really conversing with you.

rashidas said
Next week my ChnnLove Internet girlfriend and I will have our first "love call" with the help of a translator. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can determine if I am talking to the actual girl in question and not to another translator?

Video like skype is the only way I kinow.