Heiiow,I just begain a communication with chinese women,41,OF COURSE EXSTREMLY BEAUTIFUL,on line at the site China love.I am new to this,and at 63,happy on my own,I tried to do a little online research on Chinese women ,who like western men.Oh,boy,the articles I have read thus far ,have knoked the wind out of my sails,they say there all gold diggers,and one story after another gets worse and worse,even one that ends in a real murder.Besides this I have gotten so many messages from linked sites from the UKRAIN AND RUSSIA,AND THE SOUTH EAST ANSIANS SITES,i began to get suspices.The beautiful women in question is from Nanning/Guangxi provence ,devorced ,child grown,and living on his own,and she has been in busseness many years OWNING A WOOD AND CRAFT STORE. While I AM a US citizen,I live in Neterlands where my kids(2) are adults and there mother,all live in the same city.These articles,are they true,are there many gold diggers.I have 100% PTSD,post tramatic stress syndrom.I live comfortebly from the money I get for copensation being a viet nam veteran.I also get money here from the country,and do not have to work.She does not know this yet ,as I have only contacted her twice so far.I sure as -beep- wont be able to put up with anger ,arguing,as these articles suggest chinese girls are in the habit of doing….so say these articles.I certanly do not want to send a women money I don't have get a green card,and all of the other horrid thing these articles repeatedly keep saying about Chinese women.My questions are : how can I tell if she is a goldiger? To me ,she seems sincere,wants to be loved ,doesn't want to be alone etc.and my impression is ;she seems on the level.But i am naive in these sites,and there for vurneble.What can I do to avoid falling into a trap? Maybe these stories while true do not imply the majority of chinese women? But one misstake here could cost my my present finacial wellbeing,so I am worried,and even considering unsubscribing.Yet coversly,this women seems to be telling the truth,and I wouldn't want to end it so suddenly simply because I read a few stories,.Can you give me some advice? Thank you Stephen.PS,BUY NOW YOU MUST REALISE Icant spell worth a dame,sorry.