hi there im dating an chinese girl in china weve known each other for 12 months on/off i went back to my country for a few months came back we had an arguement now i still like her but she wont talk her only wants friends how can i get her back any way solutions or should i move on.
March 20, 2011
Hi …. regardless of race … Chinese or whatever … in my opinion, if it is not working out with the girl you like and she fades away …. let her go. Do not waste your time. They either like you … or they do not.
Just move on ……. (speaking from years of experience) There are many others to choose from.
September 3, 2011
I think this is very touchy topic and I would like to know more information myself. I gone through the similar situation and want to get my girl back as well.
I know my girl since last May and we been doing everything together for about 5 months. 1 night her and I got into a fight. I didn’t contact her for a week or so. She kept sending me text messages, weixin message and calling me. After that I found out she has a new bf. Even with the new bf she sends me messages saying she misses hanging out with me.
Her and I agreed to hangout one night. When we hangout she still treated me like I was bf material for her. She wanted to put her hand around my arm or she also wanted to hold hands together. When we rode the bus together and sit next to each other she wanted to put her hand inside of my thigh. Since that one night we still keep in touch by sending texts, weixin, qq and calling me.
Another time she invited me to hangout her and her co workers at work. So I went to see her. Another time she asked me if I wanted to teach at her teaching school. I didn’t want to at first and felt like it was a bad idea. Now I teach adults at her teaching school. Since I been teaching at her school, she been kinda cold around me. She doesn’t text me anymore, call me, send me weixin messages, or anything else.
I now get the impression that she gets jealous and doesn’t want to talk to me. When I see her face to face she wants to still my phone and see who I am talking to. Asks me who I’m dating now. If she her messages she will delete the message and tell me she doesn’t want anybody to see them. Also, I will try to flirt with other girls that work there. They will laugh and smile. Than when I will look at my girl she would have a look that she’s mad at me. Than my girl will say to me gun, go to die, fan ni, I’m annoying, and so on.. This how she likes to joke with me. Another day it snowed in Hangzhou and she started to flirt with me with a snowball fight. I feel like I can pick on her like a little sister and she will fight back with me. haha..
I don’t understand many of this things she does to me. I feel like this guy is just a rebound guy but he treats her pretty well. He pays gifts for her, takes her on trips, and even buy gifts for her mother.
The previous guy that wrote wants to have his girlfriend back and I also want my girl back. I still believe my girl still have feelings for me and I need to do something very impressive for her. She once told me that she still likes me and feels like I understand her. Also, said there are many things about me she dislikes. If I can fix the dislike and I hope that I can build the attraction level again.
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