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Virginity
November 29, 2011
12:10 pm
Fili
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An interesting question from Formspring:

If a chinese girl is in relationship with a guy from another country, and she is virgin, would she give her first time to that guy after few months of relationship?

In my humble opinion, this is not that different from any other relationship and would depend on the girl and the guy and how much they trust and feel for one another, but perhaps there is a cultural context to the issue of virginity in China that I'm not aware of.

 

Any thoughts?

November 29, 2011
12:36 pm
Laowaiink
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The girl will give her first time to the guy if she truly believes that she loves him, and more than likely thinks that they will be together forever.  Peer pressure to have -beep- sometimes comes into play, but usually her willingness to give herself to the guy is because of genuine affection with an eye on the future.

In the West, people are in a hurry to give up their virginity so they can be cool.  However, in China, virginity isn't looked down on (though this attitude is changing, especially among the post-90s generation), so if a girl has kept hers, and is attractive as well, she will be quite a prize.

December 4, 2011
3:41 am
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Isn't virginity looked down upon when it comes to MEN? Unless America is that different from Europe. I thought women were all innocent and pure and virgin men are losers. I don't know, maybe every college-goer in America is a -beep–crazy hound, if the ''comedies'' are to be believed.

Double standards, you know. Just taken more seriously in good ol' Zhongguo.

December 9, 2011
7:47 am
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Fili said:

An interesting question from Formspring:

If a chinese girl is in relationship with a guy from another country, and she is virgin, would she give her first time to that guy after few months of relationship?

In my humble opinion, this is not that different from any other relationship and would depend on the girl and the guy and how much they trust and feel for one another, but perhaps there is a cultural context to the issue of virginity in China that I'm not aware of.

 

Any thoughts?

Definitely.  In fact, if you are masculine and dominant, she will probably give it up to you faster than she would a Chinese boyfriend because she won't want him to think she is a -beep- but as "all foreigners are open minded when it comes to -beep-"  she can rationlise her decision to sleep with you early on.  

However, don't take her virginity unless you intend to marry her.  There are enough women out there, don't mess with the innocent ones. 

December 18, 2011
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rozyuri
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Being a virgin doesn't necessarily mean 'innocent' (ulickmcgee) as if having experiences (i.e. a relationship) means otherwise. No matter in what cultural context, being truthful and making sure of each other's expectation must be the key.. which I believe no one's really an expert in.. :)

 

Ask the girl! In a decent and gentle way. Most important of all, be honest. Don't bullshit just to get laid – or repercussions will ensue..

January 25, 2012
3:23 pm
China Shark Mike
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Virginity simply means never been penetrated so other forms of carnal escapades are completely in the realm of things. Truth be told intercourse is overrated, much more gratifying is oral. I've read and heard of girls doing everything under the sun excluding actual penetration. So if she went down on a dozen guys she's still pure at heart and soul, Shark thinks not!Surprised

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