An understanding of Chinese history is obviously important for a good understating of Chinese women. Just a reminder that here am not lecturing you on Chinese history but rather telling you something to help you get the most out of the following blog post, which will lead you most effectively to a Chinese heart.
What I like about Chinese tradition is that ”men are superior and women are inferior; boys are precious and girls are cheap. Even today, this tradition still applies in rural areas of china.
The serial dating concept that is prevalent in the Western culture is virtually unheard of in China.
Although this is slowly changing especially among the youth particularly those in colleges in international cities, most Chinese girls will not spend time alone with a man unless they have strong feelings or are certain about their desire about them as their future spouse.
In this context casual sex is rare except for westernized girls and mostly those brought up in Beijing, Shanghai and in some cases Guangzhou.
Getting into marriage a virgin is still a big deal in China and a man should take caution when approaching a Chinese woman.
In most cases, an offer of sex is usually a sign of good faith in contemplation of an impending marriage.
It is a deal breaker and if you are not ready for such a step then you might want to step back.
Physical displays of affections also have a meaning behind them as they are relatively uncommon in the Orient as compared to the Western world.
Even words or phrases of endearment have a deeper meaning to them and are not tossed around so casually.
If a Chinese girl does this, it means that they already view you as a future husband and have probably talked about you to her mother.
This could result in an invitation to meet the family which is frightening enough in the western culture as it spells commitment; in the Chinese culture it is equivalent to announcing your engagement.
When it comes to sex, Chinese women are traditionally shy and passive. It shows respect to their husbands and is a rather endearing trait for the romantic or soft hearted but not so much for the brazen and more experienced.
It may take some coercing to get a Chinese woman to tell you what she likes in bed and you need to tread softly or she will close up like a clam. Sex to Chinese women especially those who follow traditions means that she is serious about committing to you in marriage and should not be taken lightly.
Let me leave you with a quote from Chinese professor MR. Gu who was once asked by westerners:
”Why can a man have many women while a woman can’t have many men?”
Professor Gu replied by saying:
”Having concubines is out of a husband’s love and care to his wife. Man is as if a teapot and woman is as if a tea cup: A teapot with 4 tea cups can make a set, but a tea cup with 4 teapots cannot”.
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