My wife will be thirty this summer and even though she’s married with a 1-year-old baby, she still half-jokingly laments reaching this milestone (especially since I’m a year and a half younger than her :lol: ). She doesn’t fully subscribe to Chinese timetables but she’s Chinese and she can’t help but be influenced by the culture she grew up in. I think if she wasn’t married and didn’t have a house and child, she would feel a bit less secure in herself than she is now (though she wouldn’t be a panic-stricken basket case like so many Chinese girls are at this age :roll: ).

30 years old is an entirely artificial cultural construction that the Chinese have shackled themselves with and I say if someone is so weak-willed to let a specific age determine their state of mind, regardless of cultural norms and nagging parents, I say fuggedaboudit.

Picture of a Hong Kong celebrity so happily smiling. Well Duh Hong Kong girls are not effected by the 30 year old Sheng nv case. In Hong Kong the girls have theirs extended til they reach 40 years of age. Hey girls in the West face similar left over girl cases when they reach the age of 40. Especially when they get their first wrinkle.

Girls in China just live life in a faster lane. Get married in the 20s. Suffer mid life crisis in her 30s. Become grandma in her 50s. Didn’t expect to live so long in her 60s. Become great grandma in her 70s. Still living long in her 80s. Become Great great grandma in her 90s. Suppose to live to 120 but the 2nd hand smoke finally kicked in and killed her in her 100s!

Its probably caused by the old generation where they pass away in their 70s. So they schedule their lives faster.

The west has no stigmas like this. In the west, all women are pretty much like the shanghai women, Ruthless selfish gold diggers, but with some differences. Western women, well the LAST thing on their mind is marriage, period, at any age, unless they finally meet that RICH bad boy room charmer super tall, make all their girlfriends jealous guy, then marriage is certain (if she wins out of the other 300 of his harem) Most women have all their kids by the age of 23 if your looking online, but the ones who aren’t online are likely to wait until 27. Most women would rather be the ‘chosen ignorant’ to his mass harem just for a shot at being the one for rich guy. She will commit adultery anyway because shes got the money anyway in the courts. You always hear the groups of 17-23 girlfriends together talking about “your supposed to trade up!!” to each other. The “Jewish princesses” in NYC are in every major city now. Very few have any dignity going dutch. They are all easy and most could not ever imagine going a whole month without sex. They prowl for sex partners as much as men do. They are “well aware” of pussy power and teach each other how to use it to manipulate men for money in fact there are courses about it all over now and they are very popular amongst women, for 10 years now including “how to marry a millionaire” and “how to step ladder men to the life you’ve always dreamed of” There is a massive shortage of women growing in the west as well, due to all the gay and lesbian women. Due to prostitution being illegal in most of the west, there are millions of marriage frauds going around ripping men off so they don’t go to jail or become crims, only real prostitutes are much more honorable because both are having sex for money, but the prostitute is up front and honest about it. Western men are usually pigs but there is a rapidly growing group of men who just can not find a decent woman anywhere. With the massive rise in excessive obesity in the west it is nearly impossible for a western guy to find a woman with any visual body femininity. (not style but body) Western women complain that “why would they buy the cow when they can have the milk for free” who the hell wants a cow? eww. Western women worship and idolize sex in the city and desperate housewives and run around in packs bragging about heir adulterous conquests and encouraging their friends to do the same. Finding western women who have had multiple abortions isn’t just the norm but nearly expected. Its the #1 cause of death in north america over twice the 2nd cause of heart disease. If you compare online dating profiles between the west and asia you will see some of the most vomitous superficiality you have ever experienced in your life looking at the western ones vs the very loving eastern ones, the superficiality in China could not possibly be as bad as the west, even if the level on this website. Western women are the last people in the world to rate any of the traditional values high on the list of things they seek in a partner in comparison with eastern. Western women don’t even think about marriage when they want to “have a baby” for THEIR lives or ‘feel good style purse’ that will get them attention and admiration from friends. They look at men merely as sperm donors, father contributors for THEIR baby, and wallets, or something to make them feel good about themselves like a new iphone would, or that will make their friends feel jealous. Giving to a man is nowhere in their thoughts and is usually a concept they find hard to understand or scoff at if discussed, and at best they will thing you are talking about being decent in bed which they will want to pride themselves on, its not actually about giving. There are so few attractive women in the west after 25 as they have all had kids from multiple dads, are beyond fat, tattoos all over, and are open Rosie Odonnel style pigs, that any feminine women have harems of 3-10 serious guys chasing them at any given time, and many more flings at will on a daily basis as men are starved for fit attractive women unlike in china. There is a difference in churches, but in the west most churches in “western” communities are empty of anyone born 1975 or less and in many places if you go to church you are chastized and reviled by most of the gen x or gen y groups. Women seldom ever talk about finding mister right, they are beyond thinking he exists from a very young age because they are not in any way interested in traditional values. Few women are loyal and fewer faithful. new surveys show women under 25 have twice as many sexual partners by 25 then men do in the west. (what men say no?) and with women totally liberated to be as slutty as they want and everyone encouraging them to be even sluttier than the next girl, its just one big slut race. Look at me look at me, I have the most cake! Sick, but true. I have dated tons of women, all gold digging man shopping pigs but two. One cheated, the other is in heaven. Every one of my college mates has been divorced by an adultress, every, single, one. 20+ China HAS to have a better record than the west, as there are some noticeable values there unlike the west. The whole concept of marrying and having a family/child is almost completely unheard of in the west now outside of church.